tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4754952079759202520.post720020996693238962..comments2023-07-19T05:41:57.326-07:00Comments on Blog Like Ninja: PleasureGuinhyvarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11199519013383695026noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4754952079759202520.post-82065760702265861662009-04-19T07:45:00.000-07:002009-04-19T07:45:00.000-07:00Definitely nothing to be ashamed of. :) I applau...Definitely nothing to be ashamed of. :) I applaud the doctor's orders. It's so important to know what you enjoy and if it helps them to hold off on sex until marriage, think of how many teen pregnancies could be avoided!ErikaRobinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16781054056642049055noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4754952079759202520.post-26982992728986218452009-04-18T14:29:00.000-07:002009-04-18T14:29:00.000-07:00I've also told my children to "please do that in p...I've also told my children to "please do that in private" when I saw them. I never wanted them to feel guilt or shame about it.<br />As far as the therapist saying it might make girls feel like they don't need a boy to satisfy that aspect, I'm not sure that's really a "point". I'm not trying to be flip or crud but seriously, at that age (and I'm assuming "that age" is teens), the boys aren't doing much in the way of satisfying the girls anyway.<br />I don't see myself walking up to one of my children and saying "Hey, let's talk about self pleasure today!" but I also think it's a valuable part of "the talk" and all the follow-up talks.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02714720220827384395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4754952079759202520.post-35906737251170948212009-04-18T13:58:00.000-07:002009-04-18T13:58:00.000-07:00I don't know if I would go so far as to bring it u...I don't know if I would go so far as to bring it up as an option to intercourse, but if my kids asked me about it I would be honest and positive about it. I have told my kids the same as you - to do that in private when I saw them touching themselves.Cleanaturaladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07397043118539290692noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4754952079759202520.post-46000322647299104392009-04-18T12:31:00.000-07:002009-04-18T12:31:00.000-07:00Right but what I am saying is the doctor said to b...Right but what I am saying is the doctor said to bring it up to them.Ladyornot.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09070417731313332970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4754952079759202520.post-28832836997834681742009-04-18T11:35:00.000-07:002009-04-18T11:35:00.000-07:00Believe it or not, this has never come up with us....Believe it or not, this has never come up with us. I have always spoken of sex in a positive manner but I don't ever remember seeing any of the kids touching themselves.CallMeAnnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17342873658250773895noreply@blogger.com